TRY TO FACE BULLIES!!!!!!

 

                                                                                               Today let’s talk about bullying, how to face it and many more.

As bullying has always made us become more and more introverted. Don’t think you are weak, so they bully. It’s just that you will try to ignore it, but my suggestion is, you should try to face them.

                                                  Bullying is something that 1 in 2 people under 25 will experience in their lifetime. There is no singular definition of bullying because it comes in all shapes, sizes, and subtleties. Despite the varied nature of bullying. Bulling may be anything, maybe its physically harassing or mentally. It may deeply affect the personality of the victim. No one is born a bully – a true story. Bullying is a learned behavior and not an innate characteristic of anyone. The dictionary definition of bullying is “the use of strength or power frighten or hurt weaker people.” This is not a very nice definition if you ask us. First things first, being bullied does not mean that you are weak.

                                                                     Sometimes you are just not ready to face them, or you try to deny it. So just stop denying it and start facing it. I have also faced bullies, for almost till 10^th class. I didn’t have the courage to speak in front of teachers. As I am born introvert and I was even bullied by my juniors when I was 9^th class. So now I have learned that bullies will never bully you if you start to face them.

                              Don’t you think we are also citizens of India and we also have a right to live free here? Don’t you think we should make ourselves strong? So, go on making yourself stronger in the career you are interested in. And I can guarantee you that they will ask your secret formula for success.

And I have messages to bullies,

Hey, you are not just teasing him/her. But you are making them try to end their creativeness, boldness and many more. You were also kid once, try to help them when they are in need. Try to make them strong. The number of Indian parents complaining against cyberbullying, the report shows, has grown from 2011 to 2018. With the growing penetration of social media, applications like Facebook and WhatsApp have become prevalent among the new generation. Thus, students reporting that they have been witness to name shaming and teasing on such platforms is increasing as well.

                                                                                                                     If any parent or any of the adults watching or reading this, then here sure some requests from my side. Please hear everything told by your children small brothers or sisters.

HERE ARE SOME WAYS YOU CAN ASSIST YOUR CHILD.

·      Identify any change in behavior of children like sleeping trouble, low interest in activities, etc

·      Believe children when they tell you that they are bullied or harassed. This may not always be physical but could be psychological, sexual or cyberbullying as well.

·      Be extra vigilant to these warning signs if a child falls in at high-risk groups of being bullied.

·      Strengthen communication with children to bring up bullying in conversations, especially when children are younger.

·      In schools, teachers should make sure that children feel comfortable to speak up if they witness someone being bullied.

·      To tackle cyberbullying, it is essential to have conversations on the dark side of technology with pre-teens.

·      Use firewalls and other website blockers to ensure children are safe on the internet.

SO THANKS FOR READING THIS AMAZING BLOG, WHICH I THINK HAS HELPED YOU TO UNDERSTAND THE BASIC THINGS ABOUT BULLIES.

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